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Frequently Asked Questions
What is alcoholism?
Alcoholism, also known as "alcohol dependence," is a disease that includes alcohol craving and continued drinking
despite repeated alcohol-related problems, such as losing a job or getting into trouble with the law. It includes four
symptoms:
Craving -- A strong need, or compulsion, to drink.
Impaired Control -- The inability to limit one's drinking on any given occasion.
Physical Dependence -- Withdrawal symptoms, such as nausea, sweating, shakiness, and anxiety, when alcohol use
is stopped after a period of heavy drinking.
Tolerance -- The ability to drink more & more, and the need for increasing amounts of alcohol in order to feel its
effects.
For clinical and research purposes, formal diagnostic criteria for alcoholism have been developed. Such criteria are
included in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, published by the American
Psychiatric Association, as well as in the International Classification Diseases, published by the World Health
Organization.
Is alcoholism a disease?
Yes, alcoholism is a chronic, often progressive disease with symptoms that include a strong need to drink despite
negative consequences, such as serious job or health problems. Like many other diseases, it has a generally
predictable course, has recognized symptoms, and is influenced by both genetic and environmental factors that are
being increasingly well-defined.
Is alcoholism inherited?
Alcoholism tends to run in families, and genetic factors partially explain this pattern. Currently, researchers are on
the way to finding the genes that influence vulnerability to alcoholism. A person's environment, such as the
influence of friends, stress levels, and the ease of obtaining alcohol, also may influence drinking and the
development of alcoholism. Still other factors, such as social support, may help to protect even high-risk people
from alcohol problems.
Risk, however, is not destiny. A child of an alcoholic parent will not automatically develop alcoholism. Conversely, a
person with no family history of alcoholism can become alcohol dependent.
What are the signs and symptoms of alcoholism?
Most alcoholics deny that they have a drinking problem. Other signs of alcoholism and alcohol abuse include:
•
Drinking alone or in secret
•
Not remembering conversations or commitments — sometimes referred to as "blacking out"
•
Making a ritual of having drinks before, with, or after dinner, and becoming annoyed when this ritual is
disturbed or questioned
•
Losing interest in activities and hobbies that used to bring pleasure
•
Feeling a need to drink
•
Irritability as usual drinking time nears, especially if alcohol isn't available
•
Keeping alcohol in unlikely places at home, at work, or in the car
•
Gulping drinks, ordering doubles, becoming intoxicated intentionally to feel good or drinking to feel "normal"
or as the only way to "have fun & loosen up"
•
Having legal problems or problems with relationships, employment, or finances
•
Building up a tolerance to alcohol so that you need an increasing number of drinks to feel alcohol's effects
•
Experiencing physical withdrawal symptoms, such as nausea, sweating and shaking, if you don't drink
People who abuse alcohol may experience many of the same signs and symptoms as people who are dependent on
alcohol. However, alcohol abusers don't feel the same compulsion to drink and usually don't experience physical
withdrawal symptoms when they don't drink. A dependence on alcohol also creates a tolerance to alcohol and the
inability to control your drinking.
If you've ever wondered if your own alcohol consumption crosses the line of abuse or dependence, ask yourself
these questions:
•
Do you need a drink as soon as you get up?
•
Do you feel guilty about your drinking?
•
Do you think you need to cut back on your alcohol consumption?
•
Are you annoyed when other people comment on or criticize your drinking habits?
If you answered yes to two or more questions, it's likely that you have a problem with alcohol. Even one "yes"
answer may indicate a problem.
Take this test.
Can alcoholism be cured?
Not yet. Alcoholism is a treatable disease, and medication has also become available to help prevent relapse, but a
cure has not yet been found. This means that even if an alcoholic has been sober for a long time and has regained
health, he or she may relapse and must continue to avoid all alcoholic beverages.
Are there any medications for alcoholism?
Yes, two different types of medications are commonly used to treat alcoholism. The first are tranquilizers called
benzodiazepines (e.g., Valium, Librium), which are used only during the first few days of treatment to help patients
safely withdraw from alcohol.
A second type of medication is used to help people remain sober. A recently approved medicine for this purpose is
naltrexone (ReVia). When used together with counseling, this medication lessens the craving for alcohol in many
people and helps prevent a return to heavy drinking.
Another older medication is disulfiram (Antabuse), which discourages drinking by causing nausea, vomiting, and
other unpleasant physical reactions when alcohol is used.
Medications do not necessarily need to be used. Many alcoholics quit drinking when they set their mind to it,
attend counseling and/or AA meetings, and make a lifestyle change.
Does alcoholism treatment work?
Alcoholism treatment is effective in many cases. Studies show that a minority of alcoholics remain sober one year
after treatment, while others have periods of sobriety alternating with relapses. Still others are unable to stop
drinking for any length of time.
Treatment outcomes for alcoholism compare favorably with outcomes for many other chronic medical conditions.
The longer one abstains from alcohol, the more likely one is to remain sober.
It is important to remember that many people relapse once or several times before achieving long-term sobriety.
Relapses are common and do not mean that a person has failed or cannot eventually recover from alcoholism. If a
relapse occurs, it is important to try to stop drinking again and to get whatever help is needed to abstain from
alcohol.
Does a person have to be alcoholic to experience problems from alcohol?
No, even if you are not alcoholic, abusing alcohol can have negative results, such as failure to meet major work,
school, or family responsibilities because of drinking; alcohol-related legal trouble; automobile crashes due to
drinking; and a variety of alcohol-related medical problems.
Under some circumstances, problems can result from even moderate drinking -- for example, when driving, during
pregnancy, or when taking certain medicines.
Are some groups more likely to develop alcohol problems?
Yes, nearly 14 million people in the United States -- 1 in every 13 adults -- abuse alcohol or are alcoholic. However,
more men than women are alcohol dependent or experience alcohol-related problems, though this gap is closing.
In addition, rates of alcohol problems are highest among young adults ages 18-29 and lowest among adults 65
years and older. Among major U.S. ethnic groups, rates of alcoholism and alcohol-related problems vary.
How do you tell whether your or someone you know has an alcohol problem?
A good first step is to answer the brief questionnaire below, developed by Dr. John Ewing. (To help remember
these questions, note that the first letter of a key word in each question spells "CAGE.")
•
Have you ever felt you should Cut down on your drinking?
•
Have people Annoyed you by criticizing your drinking?
•
Have you ever felt bad or Guilty about your drinking?
•
Have you ever had a drink first thing in the morning to steady your nerves or to get rid of a hangover (Eye
opener)?
One "yes" answer suggests a possible alcohol problem. More than one "yes" answer means it is highly likely that a
problem exists. If you think that you or someone you know might have an alcohol problem, it is important to see a
doctor or other health provider right away. He or she can determine whether a drinking problem exists and, if so,
suggest the best course of action.
Take this test.
If I have a problem with drinking, can I just cut down instead of quitting all together?
That depends. If you are diagnosed as an alcoholic, the answer is "no." Studies show that nearly all alcoholics
who try to merely cut down on drinking are unable to do so indefinitely. Instead, cutting out alcohol (that is,
abstaining) is nearly always necessary for successful recovery.
However, if you are not alcoholic but have had alcohol-related problems, you may be able to limit the amount you
drink. If you cannot always stay within your limit, you will need to stop drinking altogether.
How can a person get help for an alcohol problem?
You can call the Center for Substance Abuse Treatment at 1-800-662-HELP for information about treatment
programs in your local community and to speak to someone about an alcohol problem.
Many people also benefit from support groups. For information on local support meetings run by Alcoholics
Anonymous (AA), call your local AA chapter (check your local phone directory under "Alcoholism") or call 212-870-
3400. Check this page for on-line meeting schedules.
For meetings of Al-Anon (for friends and family members in an alcoholic person's life) and Alateen (for children of
alcoholics), call your local Al-Anon chapter or call the following toll-free number: 1-888-4AL-ANON.
What ways can the family cope with an alcoholic?
Many recovering alcoholics and their family members find that participating in support groups is an essential part of
coping with the disease, preventing or dealing with relapses, and staying sober.
The Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) was formed in 1935. As a self-help group of recovering alcoholics,
AA offers a sober peer group as an effective model of how you can achieve total abstinence. Jerry, for whom this
site was created, was a firm believer in the AA program, and even though he was a 33-year member, he knew that
his continued sobriety was contingent upon many factors, one being the AA meeting. He also attended meetings in
order to help new members become & remain sober.
The AA program is built around 12 steps, which are straightforward suggestions for men and women who choose to
lead sober lives. Following the 12 steps aren't required for membership but rather are guides for people who
choose to live their lives sober. As guides to recovery, the 12 steps help alcoholics accept their powerlessness over
alcohol. They stress the necessity for honesty about the past and present.
Recovery in AA is based on accepting the unique experience of each alcoholic. Through listening and sharing
stories, alcoholics learn they aren't alone. There are no fees for membership, only a willingness to try to remain
sober.
Eventually family members of recovering alcoholics formed a complementary self-help group called Al-Anon. Al-
Anon is designed for people who are affected by someone else's alcoholism. In sharing their stories, they gain a
greater understanding of how the disease affects the entire family, not just the alcoholic. Al-Anon also accepts the
12 steps of AA as the principles by which participants are to conduct their lives. It also emphasizes how members
need to learn detachment and forgiveness, if they too are to be free of the disease.
In many communities, Alateen groups are also available & geared to teenage children of alcoholics.
Your doctor or counselor can refer you to an AA group. These groups are also commonly listed in the phone book,
in the local newspaper, and on the Internet. There may also be other support groups for alcoholics in your area.
If an alcoholic is unwilling to seek help, is there any way to get them treatment?
This can be a challenging situation. An alcoholic cannot be forced to get help except under certain circumstances,
such as when a violent incident results in police being called or following a medical emergency.
This doesn't mean, however, that you have to wait for a crisis to make an impact. Based on clinical experience,
many alcoholism treatment specialists recommend the following steps to help an alcoholic accept treatment:
Stop all "rescue missions." Family members often try to protect an alcoholic from the results of his or her
behavior by making excuses to others about his or her drinking and by getting him or her out of alcohol-
related jams. It is important to stop all such rescue attempts immediately so that the alcoholic will fully
experience the harmful effects of his or her drinking -- and thereby become more motivated to stop.
Time your intervention. Plan to talk with the drinker shortly after an alcohol-related problem has occurred--
for example, a serious family argument in which drinking played a part or an alcohol-related accident. Also
choose a time when he or she is sober, when both of you are in a calm frame of mind, and when you can
speak privately.
Be specific. Tell the family member that you are concerned about his or her drinking and want to be
supportive in getting help. Back up your concern with examples of the ways in which his or her drinking has
caused problems for both of you, including the most recent incident.
State the consequences. Tell the family member that until he or she gets help, you will carry out
consequences--not to punish the drinker, but to protect yourself from the harmful effects of the drinking.
These may range from refusing to go with the person to any alcohol-related social activities to moving out of
the house. Do not make any threats you are not prepared to carry out.
Be ready to help. Gather information in advance about local treatment options. If the person is willing to
seek help, call immediately for an appointment with a treatment program counselor. Offer to go with the
family member on the first visit to a treatment program and/or AA meeting.
Call on a friend. If the family member still refuses to get help, ask a friend to talk with him or her, using the
steps described above. A friend who is a recovering alcoholic may be particularly persuasive, but any caring,
nonjudgmental friend may be able to make a difference. The intervention of more than one person, more
than one time, is often necessary to persuade an alcoholic person to seek help.
Find strength in numbers. With the help of a professional therapist, some families join with other relatives
and friends to confront an alcoholic as a group. While this approach may be effective, it should only be
attempted under the guidance of a therapist who is experienced in this kind of group intervention.
Get support. Whether or not the alcoholic family member seeks help, you may benefit from the
encouragement and support of other people in your situation. Support groups offered in most communities
include Al-Anon, which holds regular meetings for spouses and other significant adults in an alcoholic's life,
and Alateen, for children of alcoholics. These groups help family members understand that they are not
responsible for an alcoholic's drinking and that they need to take steps to take care of themselves, regardless
of whether the alcoholic family member chooses to get help.
What is a safe level of drinking?
Most adults can drink moderate amounts of alcohol -- up to two drinks per day for men and one drink per day for
women and older people -- and avoid alcohol-related problems. (One drink equals one 12-ounce bottle of beer or
wine cooler, one 5-ounce glass of wine, or 1.5 ounces of 80-proof distilled spirits.)
However, certain people should not drink at all. They include women who are pregnant or trying to become
pregnant; people who plan to drive or engage in other activities requiring alertness and skill; people taking certain
medications, including certain over-the-counter medicines; people with medical conditions that can be worsened by
drinking; recovering alcoholics; and people under the age of 21.
Is it safe to drink during pregnancy?
No, drinking during pregnancy can have a number of harmful effects on the newborn, ranging from mental
retardation, organ abnormalities, and hyperactivity to learning and behavioral problems. Moreover, many of these
disorders last into adulthood and often forever.
While we don't yet know exactly how much alcohol is required to cause these problems, we do know that they are
100-percent preventable if a woman does not drink at all during pregnancy. Therefore, for women who are
pregnant or are trying to become pregnant, the safest course is to abstain from alcohol.
As a person ages, does alcohol affect their bodies differently?
Yes, as a person ages, certain mental and physical functions tend to decline, including vision, hearing, and reaction
time. Moreover, other physical changes associated with aging can make older people feel "high" after drinking
fairly small amounts of alcohol. These combined factors make older people more likely to have alcohol-related falls,
automobile crashes, and other kinds of accidents.
In addition, older people tend to take more medicines than younger people, and mixing alcohol with many over-
the-counter and prescription drugs can be dangerous & even fatal.
Further, many medical conditions common to older people, including high blood pressure and ulcers, can be
worsened by drinking. Even if there is no medical reason to avoid alcohol, older men and women should limit their
intake to one drink per day.
Does alcohol affect a woman's body differently than a man's body?
Yes, women become more intoxicated than men after drinking the same amount of alcohol, even when differences
in body weight are taken into account. This is because women's bodies have proportionately less water than men's
bodies.
Because alcohol mixes with body water, a given amount of alcohol becomes more highly concentrated in a woman's
body than in a man's. That is why the recommended drinking limit for women is lower than for men.
In addition, chronic alcohol abuse takes a heavier physical toll on women than on men. Alcohol dependence and
related medical problems, such as brain and liver damage, progress more rapidly in women than in men.
Is alcohol good for your heart?
Several studies have reported that moderate drinkers -- those who have one or two drinks per day -- are less likely
to develop heart disease than people who do not drink any alcohol or who drink larger amounts. Small amounts of
alcohol may help protect against coronary heart disease by raising levels of "good" HDL cholesterol and by reducing
the risk of blood clots in the coronary arteries.
If you are a nondrinker, you should not start drinking only to benefit your heart. Protection against coronary heart
disease may be obtained through regular physical activity and a low-fat diet. And if you are pregnant, planning to
become pregnant, have been diagnosed as alcoholic, or have any medical condition that could make alcohol use
harmful, you should not drink.
Even for those who can drink safely and choose to do so, moderation is the key. Heavy drinking can actually
increase the risk of heart failure, stroke, and high blood pressure, as well as cause many other medical problems,
such as liver cirrhosis.
If I am taking over-the-counter medications, do I need to stop drinking?
Probably. More than 100 medications interact with alcohol, leading to increased risk of illness, injury, and, in some
cases, death. The effects of alcohol are increased by medicines that slow down the central nervous system, such
as sleeping pills, antihistamines, antidepressants, anti-anxiety drugs, and some painkillers.
In addition, medicines for certain disorders, including diabetes and heart disease, can be dangerous if used with
alcohol. If you are taking any over-the-counter or prescription medication, ask your doctor or pharmacist whether
you can safely drink alcohol.
Excerpts from: The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism
Jerry's Story is provided to help others who might be struggling with alcohol abuse, addiction, or alcoholism.
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is alcoholism?
Alcoholism, also known as "alcohol dependence," is a
disease that includes alcohol craving and continued
drinking despite repeated alcohol-related problems, such
as losing a job or getting into trouble with the law. It
includes four symptoms:
Craving -- A strong need, or compulsion, to drink.
Impaired Control -- The inability to limit one's drinking
on any given occasion.
Physical Dependence -- Withdrawal symptoms, such as
nausea, sweating, shakiness, and anxiety, when alcohol
use is stopped after a period of heavy drinking.
Tolerance -- The ability to drink more & more, and the
need for increasing amounts of alcohol in order to feel
its effects.
For clinical and research purposes, formal diagnostic
criteria for alcoholism have been developed. Such
criteria are included in the Diagnostic and Statistical
Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition, published by
the American Psychiatric Association, as well as in the
International Classification Diseases, published by the
World Health Organization.
Is alcoholism a disease?
Yes, alcoholism is a chronic, often progressive disease
with symptoms that include a strong need to drink
despite negative consequences, such as serious job or
health problems. Like many other diseases, it has a
generally predictable course, has recognized symptoms,
and is influenced by both genetic and environmental
factors that are being increasingly well-defined.
Is alcoholism inherited?
Alcoholism tends to run in families, and genetic factors
partially explain this pattern. Currently, researchers are
on the way to finding the genes that influence
vulnerability to alcoholism. A person's environment,
such as the influence of friends, stress levels, and the
ease of obtaining alcohol, also may influence drinking
and the development of alcoholism. Still other factors,
such as social support, may help to protect even high-
risk people from alcohol problems.
Risk, however, is not destiny. A child of an alcoholic
parent will not automatically develop alcoholism.
Conversely, a person with no family history of alcoholism
can become alcohol dependent.
What are the signs and symptoms of alcoholism?
Most alcoholics deny that they have a drinking problem.
Other signs of alcoholism and alcohol abuse include:
•
Drinking alone or in secret
•
Not remembering conversations or commitments
— sometimes referred to as "blacking out"
•
Making a ritual of having drinks before, with, or
after dinner, and becoming annoyed when this
ritual is disturbed or questioned
•
Losing interest in activities and hobbies that used
to bring pleasure
•
Feeling a need to drink
•
Irritability as usual drinking time nears, especially
if alcohol isn't available
•
Keeping alcohol in unlikely places at home, at
work, or in the car
•
Gulping drinks, ordering doubles, becoming
intoxicated intentionally to feel good or drinking to
feel "normal" or as the only way to "have fun &
loosen up"
•
Having legal problems or problems with
relationships, employment, or finances
•
Building up a tolerance to alcohol so that you
need an increasing number of drinks to feel
alcohol's effects
•
Experiencing physical withdrawal symptoms, such
as nausea, sweating and shaking, if you don't
drink
People who abuse alcohol may experience many of the
same signs and symptoms as people who are dependent
on alcohol. However, alcohol abusers don't feel the
same compulsion to drink and usually don't experience
physical withdrawal symptoms when they don't drink. A
dependence on alcohol also creates a tolerance to
alcohol and the inability to control your drinking.
If you've ever wondered if your own alcohol
consumption crosses the line of abuse or dependence,
ask yourself these questions:
•
Do you need a drink as soon as you get up?
•
Do you feel guilty about your drinking?
•
Do you think you need to cut back on your alcohol
consumption?
•
Are you annoyed when other people comment on
or criticize your drinking habits?
If you answered yes to two or more questions, it's likely
that you have a problem with alcohol. Even one "yes"
answer may indicate a problem.
Take this test.
Can alcoholism be cured?
Not yet. Alcoholism is a treatable disease, and
medication has also become available to help prevent
relapse, but a cure has not yet been found. This means
that even if an alcoholic has been sober for a long time
and has regained health, he or she may relapse and
must continue to avoid all alcoholic beverages.
Are there any medications for alcoholism?
Yes, two different types of medications are commonly
used to treat alcoholism. The first are tranquilizers
called benzodiazepines (e.g., Valium, Librium), which are
used only during the first few days of treatment to help
patients safely withdraw from alcohol.
A second type of medication is used to help people
remain sober. A recently approved medicine for this
purpose is naltrexone (ReVia). When used together
with counseling, this medication lessens the craving for
alcohol in many people and helps prevent a return to
heavy drinking.
Another older medication is disulfiram (Antabuse), which
discourages drinking by causing nausea, vomiting, and
other unpleasant physical reactions when alcohol is
used.
Medications do not necessarily need to be used. Many
alcoholics quit drinking when they set their mind to it,
attend counseling and/or AA meetings, and make a
lifestyle change.
Does alcoholism treatment work?
Alcoholism treatment is effective in many cases. Studies
show that a minority of alcoholics remain sober one year
after treatment, while others have periods of sobriety
alternating with relapses. Still others are unable to stop
drinking for any length of time.
Treatment outcomes for alcoholism compare favorably
with outcomes for many other chronic medical
conditions. The longer one abstains from alcohol, the
more likely one is to remain sober.
It is important to remember that many people relapse
once or several times before achieving long-term
sobriety. Relapses are common and do not mean that a
person has failed or cannot eventually recover from
alcoholism. If a relapse occurs, it is important to try to
stop drinking again and to get whatever help is needed
to abstain from alcohol.
Does a person have to be alcoholic to experience
problems from alcohol?
No, even if you are not alcoholic, abusing alcohol can
have negative results, such as failure to meet major
work, school, or family responsibilities because of
drinking; alcohol-related legal trouble; automobile
crashes due to drinking; and a variety of alcohol-related
medical problems.
Under some circumstances, problems can result from
even moderate drinking -- for example, when driving,
during pregnancy, or when taking certain medicines.
Are some groups more likely to develop alcohol
problems?
Yes, nearly 14 million people in the United States -- 1 in
every 13 adults -- abuse alcohol or are alcoholic.
However, more men than women are alcohol dependent
or experience alcohol-related problems, though this gap
is closing. In addition, rates of alcohol problems are
highest among young adults ages 18-29 and lowest
among adults 65 years and older. Among major U.S.
ethnic groups, rates of alcoholism and alcohol-related
problems vary.
How do you tell whether your or someone you
know has an alcohol problem?
A good first step is to answer the brief questionnaire
below, developed by Dr. John Ewing. (To help
remember these questions, note that the first letter of a
key word in each question spells "CAGE.")
•
Have you ever felt you should Cut down on your
drinking?
•
Have people Annoyed you by criticizing your
drinking?
•
Have you ever felt bad or Guilty about your
drinking?
•
Have you ever had a drink first thing in the morning
to steady your nerves or to get rid of a hangover
(Eye opener)?
One "yes" answer suggests a possible alcohol problem.
More than one "yes" answer means it is highly likely that
a problem exists. If you think that you or someone you
know might have an alcohol problem, it is important to
see a doctor or other health provider right away. He or
she can determine whether a drinking problem exists
and, if so, suggest the best course of action.
Take this test.
If I have a problem with drinking, can I just cut
down instead of quitting all together?
That depends. If you are diagnosed as an alcoholic, the
answer is "no." Studies show that nearly all alcoholics
who try to merely cut down on drinking are unable to do
so indefinitely. Instead, cutting out alcohol (that is,
abstaining) is nearly always necessary for successful
recovery.
However, if you are not alcoholic but have had alcohol-
related problems, you may be able to limit the amount
you drink. If you cannot always stay within your limit,
you will need to stop drinking altogether.
How can a person get help for an alcohol
problem?
You can call the Center for Substance Abuse Treatment
at 1-800-662-HELP for information about treatment
programs in your local community and to speak to
someone about an alcohol problem.
Many people also benefit from support groups. For
information on local support meetings run by Alcoholics
Anonymous (AA), call your local AA chapter (check your
local phone directory under "Alcoholism") or call 212-
870-3400. Check this page for on-line meeting
schedules.
For meetings of Al-Anon (for friends and family
members in an alcoholic person's life) and Alateen (for
children of alcoholics), call your local Al-Anon chapter or
call the following toll-free number: 1-888-4AL-ANON.
What ways can the family cope with an alcoholic?
Many recovering alcoholics and their family members
find that participating in support groups is an essential
part of coping with the disease, preventing or dealing
with relapses, and staying sober.
The Fellowship of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) was
formed in 1935. As a self-help group of recovering
alcoholics, AA offers a sober peer group as an effective
model of how you can achieve total abstinence. Jerry,
for whom this site was created, was a firm believer in
the AA program, and even though he was a 33-year
member, he knew that his continued sobriety was
contingent upon many factors, one being the AA
meeting. He also attended meetings in order to help
new members become & remain sober.
The AA program is built around 12 steps, which are
straightforward suggestions for men and women who
choose to lead sober lives. Following the 12 steps aren't
required for membership but rather are guides for
people who choose to live their lives sober. As guides to
recovery, the 12 steps help alcoholics accept their
powerlessness over alcohol. They stress the necessity
for honesty about the past and present.
Recovery in AA is based on accepting the unique
experience of each alcoholic. Through listening and
sharing stories, alcoholics learn they aren't alone. There
are no fees for membership, only a willingness to try to
remain sober.
Eventually family members of recovering alcoholics
formed a complementary self-help group called Al-Anon.
Al-Anon is designed for people who are affected by
someone else's alcoholism. In sharing their stories, they
gain a greater understanding of how the disease affects
the entire family, not just the alcoholic. Al-Anon also
accepts the 12 steps of AA as the principles by which
participants are to conduct their lives. It also
emphasizes how members need to learn detachment
and forgiveness, if they too are to be free of the
disease.
In many communities, Alateen groups are also available
& geared to teenage children of alcoholics.
Your doctor or counselor can refer you to an AA group.
These groups are also commonly listed in the phone
book, in the local newspaper, and on the Internet.
There may also be other support groups for alcoholics in
your area.
If an alcoholic is unwilling to seek help, is there any way
to get them treatment?
This can be a challenging situation. An alcoholic cannot
be forced to get help except under certain
circumstances, such as when a violent incident results in
police being called or following a medical emergency.
This doesn't mean, however, that you have to wait for a
crisis to make an impact. Based on clinical experience,
many alcoholism treatment specialists recommend the
following steps to help an alcoholic accept treatment:
Stop all "rescue missions." Family members
often try to protect an alcoholic from the results of
his or her behavior by making excuses to others
about his or her drinking and by getting him or her
out of alcohol-related jams. It is important to stop
all such rescue attempts immediately so that the
alcoholic will fully experience the harmful effects of
his or her drinking -- and thereby become more
motivated to stop.
Time your intervention. Plan to talk with the
drinker shortly after an alcohol-related problem has
occurred--for example, a serious family argument in
which drinking played a part or an alcohol-related
accident. Also choose a time when he or she is
sober, when both of you are in a calm frame of
mind, and when you can speak privately.
Be specific. Tell the family member that you are
concerned about his or her drinking and want to be
supportive in getting help. Back up your concern
with examples of the ways in which his or her
drinking has caused problems for both of you,
including the most recent incident.
State the consequences. Tell the family member
that until he or she gets help, you will carry out
consequences--not to punish the drinker, but to
protect yourself from the harmful effects of the
drinking. These may range from refusing to go
with the person to any alcohol-related social
activities to moving out of the house. Do not make
any threats you are not prepared to carry out.
Be ready to help. Gather information in advance
about local treatment options. If the person is
willing to seek help, call immediately for an
appointment with a treatment program counselor.
Offer to go with the family member on the first visit
to a treatment program and/or AA meeting.
Call on a friend. If the family member still
refuses to get help, ask a friend to talk with him or
her, using the steps described above. A friend who
is a recovering alcoholic may be particularly
persuasive, but any caring, nonjudgmental friend
may be able to make a difference. The intervention
of more than one person, more than one time, is
often necessary to persuade an alcoholic person to
seek help.
Find strength in numbers. With the help of a
professional therapist, some families join with other
relatives and friends to confront an alcoholic as a
group. While this approach may be effective, it
should only be attempted under the guidance of a
therapist who is experienced in this kind of group
intervention.
Get support. Whether or not the alcoholic family
member seeks help, you may benefit from the
encouragement and support of other people in your
situation. Support groups offered in most
communities include Al-Anon, which holds regular
meetings for spouses and other significant adults in
an alcoholic's life, and Alateen, for children of
alcoholics. These groups help family members
understand that they are not responsible for an
alcoholic's drinking and that they need to take
steps to take care of themselves, regardless of
whether the alcoholic family member chooses to
get help.
What is a safe level of drinking?
Most adults can drink moderate amounts of alcohol -- up
to two drinks per day for men and one drink per day for
women and older people -- and avoid alcohol-related
problems. (One drink equals one 12-ounce bottle of
beer or wine cooler, one 5-ounce glass of wine, or 1.5
ounces of 80-proof distilled spirits.)
However, certain people should not drink at all. They
include women who are pregnant or trying to become
pregnant; people who plan to drive or engage in other
activities requiring alertness and skill; people taking
certain medications, including certain over-the-counter
medicines; people with medical conditions that can be
worsened by drinking; recovering alcoholics; and people
under the age of 21.
Is it safe to drink during pregnancy?
No, drinking during pregnancy can have a number of
harmful effects on the newborn, ranging from mental
retardation, organ abnormalities, and hyperactivity to
learning and behavioral problems. Moreover, many of
these disorders last into adulthood and often forever.
While we don't yet know exactly how much alcohol is
required to cause these problems, we do know that they
are 100-percent preventable if a woman does not drink
at all during pregnancy. Therefore, for women who are
pregnant or are trying to become pregnant, the safest
course is to abstain from alcohol.
As a person ages, does alcohol affect their bodies
differently?
Yes, as a person ages, certain mental and physical
functions tend to decline, including vision, hearing, and
reaction time. Moreover, other physical changes
associated with aging can make older people feel "high"
after drinking fairly small amounts of alcohol. These
combined factors make older people more likely to have
alcohol-related falls, automobile crashes, and other
kinds of accidents.
In addition, older people tend to take more medicines
than younger people, and mixing alcohol with many
over-the-counter and prescription drugs can be
dangerous & even fatal.
Further, many medical conditions common to older
people, including high blood pressure and ulcers, can be
worsened by drinking. Even if there is no medical
reason to avoid alcohol, older men and women should
limit their intake to one drink per day.
Does alcohol affect a woman's body differently
than a man's body?
Yes, women become more intoxicated than men after
drinking the same amount of alcohol, even when
differences in body weight are taken into account. This
is because women's bodies have proportionately less
water than men's bodies.
Because alcohol mixes with body water, a given amount
of alcohol becomes more highly concentrated in a
woman's body than in a man's. That is why the
recommended drinking limit for women is lower than for
men.
In addition, chronic alcohol abuse takes a heavier
physical toll on women than on men. Alcohol
dependence and related medical problems, such as
brain and liver damage, progress more rapidly in women
than in men.
Is alcohol good for your heart?
Several studies have reported that moderate drinkers --
those who have one or two drinks per day -- are less
likely to develop heart disease than people who do not
drink any alcohol or who drink larger amounts. Small
amounts of alcohol may help protect against coronary
heart disease by raising levels of "good" HDL cholesterol
and by reducing the risk of blood clots in the coronary
arteries.
If you are a nondrinker, you should not start drinking
only to benefit your heart. Protection against coronary
heart disease may be obtained through regular physical
activity and a low-fat diet. And if you are pregnant,
planning to become pregnant, have been diagnosed as
alcoholic, or have any medical condition that could make
alcohol use harmful, you should not drink.
Even for those who can drink safely and choose to do
so, moderation is the key. Heavy drinking can actually
increase the risk of heart failure, stroke, and high blood
pressure, as well as cause many other medical
problems, such as liver cirrhosis.
If I am taking over-the-counter medications, do I
need to stop drinking?
Probably. More than 100 medications interact with
alcohol, leading to increased risk of illness, injury, and,
in some cases, death. The effects of alcohol are
increased by medicines that slow down the central
nervous system, such as sleeping pills, antihistamines,
antidepressants, anti-anxiety drugs, and some
painkillers.
In addition, medicines for certain disorders, including
diabetes and heart disease, can be dangerous if used
with alcohol. If you are taking any over-the-counter or
prescription medication, ask your doctor or pharmacist
whether you can safely drink alcohol.
Excerpts from: The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse
and Alcoholism
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